Open Relationships - MGTOW
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Hi Everyone Sandman Here,
This video is brought to you by a donation from Harvey and here's what he has to say: "Thanks for your videos, they are good not just for the knowledge they impart but also for the entertainment they provide. I've been at this for some time, 64 years, and was raised by my parents to fully participate in the free love 70's. While I've fallen in love, more than once, my early adulthood was more concerned with studying, learning, going to college, and eventually settling on a career pretty much unrelated to my college degrees. I always had a girlfriend, but never an exclusive relationship. My girlfriends claimed to agree with me in having these open relationships, but I can accurately report that each and every one of them actually wanted me to be exclusive while they experienced the openness. Until recently it was important to me that my girlfriends and my eventual wife be attractive women, real head turners, and indeed they were. At some point I decided to “settle down” and raise a family. For the first time I experienced an exclusive relationship, a relationship with only one woman. She claimed to agree with me that divorce is a sin and not an option, that the mother should stay home to be there for the children 24 hours a day, and that when our youngest reached an age at which he or she could be home alone my wife would return to work and help pay the bills. You can imagine what happened next. When she had worked for a year or two and her income rose to a reasonable level, perhaps $50,000 a year, she divorced me, took me for more than $300,000 and took tens of thousands of dollars in child support. Apparently, unbeknown to me, she had discussed this option with our youngest child some seven years earlier. Lest there be any doubt in your mind, I will report here that our legal system hates men. I was compelled to pay her child support even though our two youngest were living with me. I was solely responsible for paying for college for our children, and, la pièce de résistance, she managed in 3 years to dissipate the fortune she appropriated from. Guess who'll be helping the kids buy their houses and working until he's 70 instead of retiring at 60? I have since returned to open relationships and, for the first time, developed a friends with benefits relationship with a heavy woman. She is 12 years younger than me, quite beautiful, and very pleasant to be around, but weighs 200 pounds. Like all women she feels entitled to my assets, but only in tiny bits and pieces. I was celibate for some years after my divorce but have returned to indulging in the occasional fling. I find myself returning to this woman time and again. If some day you see large porcine raindrops falling form the sky you will know I considered marrying her. In retrospect, I observe that those relationships where I was in control, all of then except my marriage, were successful, honest, fun, caring, prosperous, and beneficial to both of us. These relationships ended when the woman demanded more control. The one time I yielded control to the woman, to my wife, our relationship slowly devolved into a disaster. My current friendship works well and I am about 95% in control.
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